Bitch-Trying to be One

Definition of a:

Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone's standards, only her own.

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I'm trying to be one around my boyfriend because he has been giving me a hard time on my so-called tummy and love handles. Which I have concluded; perfectly normal after I have openly stared at a model's waist line when she was changing. HAHA!

She preferred to call it 'muffin top' just because it sounds cuter and less gross and unfatlike. Which I TOTALLY AGREE.

I'm not hating my boy for harping on those extra fats. I know where he is coming from and he is also a personal trainer to start with. Well, not good for me. or maybe, Lucky ME!
I also admit my little tummy has grown a tad as compared to the past. I indulged in too many cheeses and cheese cakes thinking that it made my boobs grow fuller... :(

Ultimately, fats do not go to places that really matter......... And when they start to grow in unwanted places, it is freaking hard to get rid of.

So Bf starts to nag me into eating healthier foods, do leg raises and hip raises.
MY god I swear you need 200% discipline and major MAJOR determination to just keep doing it for 4 reps of 30 everyday.

So my question is, what is considered normal? Or it really just boils down to individuals' needs after all? To me, although I do not like my muffin top or little tummy that much, I felt it's kind of 'still acceptable' ??????

Of course, fear sometimes strike me that one day it'll just keep accumulating and get bigger. My bf will probably leave me then, because it's avoidable and I brought it upon myself. He did indeed say he can overlook it if it's hormonal imbalance fat gain. HAH

But seriously I've also been more conscious of what I eat recently and only occasionally indulge in sinful foods during weekends. He pointed out that it is in my best interest and ultimately I'm the one who will reap the benefits of staying trim and healthy in the end.

TRUE.

Much as I would like to become a bitch, it really does not make any sense to go against my body, however much I want to fight my boy's incessant reminders. ARGHHHHHhhhhhhhh

BUT I won't obsess over it. I've got a huge load of confidence for now.

But as females, we do at times really need to put our foot down and stand up for what's right for ourselves instead of being dictated solely by boyfriends and husbands.

Being a bitch is sometimes good.
Sometimes they do like a little bit of bitchy spice in their ladies ;)

So many things to be mindful of just for being female:
Face, hair, body, busts, giving birth, walking in heels and many more!

WHat to do??????? What to dooooooooo???????