The Real Boyfriend

The Key Secret to every girls' heart. :) And Im not even talking about Tiffany & Co.....

When She stares at your mouth, Kiss her

When she pushes you or hits you like a dummy, cause she thinks she's stronger than you,
Grab her and dont let go

When she starts cursing at you and trying to act all tough,
Kiss her and tell her you love her.

When she's quiet, Ask her whats wrong

When she ignores you, give her your attention

When she pulls away, pull her back

When you see her at her worst,Tell her She's beautiful

When you see her cry, hold her and don't say a word

When you see her walking, sneak up and hug her waist from behind

When she's scared, protect her

When she steals your favourite hoodie, let her keep it and sleep with it for a night

When she teases you, tease her back and make her laugh

When she doesn't answer for a long time, reassure her that everything is ok

When she looks at you with doubt, back yourself up

When she says that she loves you, she really does more than you can understand

When she grabs at your hands, hold hers and play with her fingers

When she bumps into you, bump into her back and make her laugh.

When she tells you a secret, keep it safe and untold

When she looks into your eyes, dont look away until she does.

When she says its over, she still wants you to be hers.

Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.

When she's mad, hug her tight and never let go

When she says she's ok, don't believe it. Talk with her and 10yrs later she'll remember you.

Call her at 12am on her birthday to tell her you love her

Treat her like she's all that matters to you

Stay up all night with her when she's sick

Watch her favourite movie/show even if you think it's stupid

Let her wear your clothes

When she's bored and sad, hang out with her

Let her know she's important

Don't talk about other girls around her

Kiss her in the pouring rain

When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is:
"Whose ASS am I kicking, baby?!!!"

Hearts,
Gerra

Bitch-Trying to be One

Definition of a:

Bitch (noun): A woman who won't bang her head against the wall obsessing over someone else's opinion. She understands that if someone does not approve of her, it's just one person's opinion; therefore it's of no real importance. She doesn't try to live up to anyone's standards, only her own.

:)

I'm trying to be one around my boyfriend because he has been giving me a hard time on my so-called tummy and love handles. Which I have concluded; perfectly normal after I have openly stared at a model's waist line when she was changing. HAHA!

She preferred to call it 'muffin top' just because it sounds cuter and less gross and unfatlike. Which I TOTALLY AGREE.

I'm not hating my boy for harping on those extra fats. I know where he is coming from and he is also a personal trainer to start with. Well, not good for me. or maybe, Lucky ME!
I also admit my little tummy has grown a tad as compared to the past. I indulged in too many cheeses and cheese cakes thinking that it made my boobs grow fuller... :(

Ultimately, fats do not go to places that really matter......... And when they start to grow in unwanted places, it is freaking hard to get rid of.

So Bf starts to nag me into eating healthier foods, do leg raises and hip raises.
MY god I swear you need 200% discipline and major MAJOR determination to just keep doing it for 4 reps of 30 everyday.

So my question is, what is considered normal? Or it really just boils down to individuals' needs after all? To me, although I do not like my muffin top or little tummy that much, I felt it's kind of 'still acceptable' ??????

Of course, fear sometimes strike me that one day it'll just keep accumulating and get bigger. My bf will probably leave me then, because it's avoidable and I brought it upon myself. He did indeed say he can overlook it if it's hormonal imbalance fat gain. HAH

But seriously I've also been more conscious of what I eat recently and only occasionally indulge in sinful foods during weekends. He pointed out that it is in my best interest and ultimately I'm the one who will reap the benefits of staying trim and healthy in the end.

TRUE.

Much as I would like to become a bitch, it really does not make any sense to go against my body, however much I want to fight my boy's incessant reminders. ARGHHHHHhhhhhhhh

BUT I won't obsess over it. I've got a huge load of confidence for now.

But as females, we do at times really need to put our foot down and stand up for what's right for ourselves instead of being dictated solely by boyfriends and husbands.

Being a bitch is sometimes good.
Sometimes they do like a little bit of bitchy spice in their ladies ;)

So many things to be mindful of just for being female:
Face, hair, body, busts, giving birth, walking in heels and many more!

WHat to do??????? What to dooooooooo???????